Sex Toys are Allies, not Competitors

Sex Toys are Allies Not Competitors

There is only one thing better than a pleasure product in solo play and that’s a sex toy shared between lovers, a duet if you will.

The challenge with couple’s toys in a heterosexual relationship is that often guys feel emasculated by sex toys. Studies have shown that over 80% of womxn need something more than just penetration to orgasm sex toys can be that game-changer in the bedroom.

Whether you are into sex toys to get your rocks off or to add some spice to your relationship it can be a daunting conversation to have with your partner, when you can share your needs openly with your partner you move towards a more fulfilling and fun sex life.

So what can you do if your lover is feeling a bit threatened by sex toys? Helping your partner to not see them as a competitor to their natural talents and abilities will help them ‘get over it’ by opening up the conversation around sex toys being an ally. Some sex toys like bullet vibrators are so petite after all.

According to Bustle, a digital destination for young women, research studies have confirmed time and time again that womxn in lesbian relationships have more orgasms than womxn in straight relationships. This further highlights the space that exists for men in the sexual satisfaction of womxn – this isn’t a weakness but rather an opportunity to explore.

It is totally hot to see your partner in sexual ecstasy and we know if you had to ask your man if he would like you to orgasm more often, no doubt he would reply “yes, yes please”.

When you convince your lover to try it even just once, we are pretty sure they’ll be hooked – to see your face immersed in pleasure and your body riding in delight will be a deal-seal.

Easing your partner’s concerns and fears by guiding them on how to use a pleasure product to bring you to your maximum pleasure is a delightful adventure. Use encouraging words to cheer them on and then enjoy the orgasms (hopefully multiple ones) before you return the favour. Or be extra kind and let them have the first turn.

Pleasure products can stimulate you in a way that naturally you couldn’t achieve. That is perfectly wonderful as experiencing sexual pleasure heightens your ability to feel sexual pleasure and gives you deep-seated inner confidence. That’s super-hot!

The opportunity to orgasm together with your man is pretty priceless, and this double orgasm is a great turn-on for men. As always thank us later – it’s our pleasure!

P.S Just a little guidance on using sex toys on a male. Vibrations from bullets, G-spot stimulators and rabbit vibrators feel amazing for them when you trace over their testes and perineum and move up their shaft. Circle the head of the penis to thrill and move in slow motion to tease. During penetration hold the sex toy up against your clitoris for a dual-stimulation orgasm.

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